PORTLAND, Maine — In the weeks since Maine voters approved a law allowing same-sex marriage, Clay Hill Farm has been getting phone calls and emails from gay couples inquiring about open dates and wedding packages at the restaurant and wildlife sanctuary, a popular wedding spot in York.
The law won’t go into effect for more than a month, but already couples from in and out of state have called, said Jennifer Lewis-McShera, who heads the wedding department there.
Clay Hill Farm puts on dozens of wedding ceremonies a year, as well as receptions and rehearsal dinners, and provides catering services to wedding parties at other locations. Legalizing same-sex marriage can only help, Lewis-McShera said. “It will increase business in this area because we’ll attract more couples from Boston and the New York metropolitan area who now can have the wedding of their dreams in Maine,” she said. “This puts Maine on the map.”
Add the coast of Maine, the banks of the Chesapeake Bay and the shores of Seattle’s Lake Washington to gay wedding destinations. Through January, laws go into effect in Maine, Maryland and Washington state that allow same-sex marriage. They’re the first states where voters approved such laws, rather than legislators or courts.
18,000 more nuptials
Nearly 18,000 same-sex couples in those states will exchange vows in the first three years after the new laws are in effect, according to estimates from the Williams Institute, a national think tank at the UCLA School of Law. The laws should generate at least $166 million in wedding spending in the three states over the next three years from in-state couples alone, boosting tax revenues.
Wedding-related spending for in-state couples is projected to be about $16 million in Maine, $63 million in Maryland and $89 million in Washington.
The numbers go up when figuring in out-of-staters who travel to those states to be wed. In Maine, for instance, the new law could boost the state economy by $25 million and create up to 250 new jobs in the coming three years, said Lee Badgett, research director at the Williams Institute and an economics professor at the University of Massachusetts.
A Portland, Maine, man has launched what he’s calling the first online wedding directory, www.gayweddingsin maine.com, connecting same-sex couples with gay-friendly businesses.
Other states that have legalized gay marriage have benefited economically as a result. Same-sex marriage is legal in Connecticut, Iowa, Massachusetts, New Hampshire, New York, Vermont and the District of Columbia.
Vermont and Massachusetts now include sections on their state tourism websites that include information about gay marriage. Even honeymoon capital Niagara Falls has gotten a lift from same-sex weddings and honeymoons.
Cindy Sproul co-owns North Carolina-based Rainbow Wedding Network, which produces gay and lesbian wedding expos in Seattle and other cities. Just since the election, she’s seen a 30 to 40 percent increase in companies wanting to advertise with the company in Washington state. Thousands of in-state residents, as well as those from nearby states that haven’t legalized gay marriage, are expected to exchange vows in Washington in the coming years.
“There are a lot of couples that will cross state lines to get married. Maybe they want to make a long weekend of it,” Sproul said. “I imagine there will be couples from Oregon who will come up.”
In Maine, Pam Remy and her partner of 13 years, Karen Weiss, have just begun to plan for a late summer or early fall wedding. They’re looking into pastoral settings in southern Maine to host the wedding and are hoping to have up to 200 guests. The to-do list is the same that many couples face when planning a wedding: find a venue, print invitations, hire a photographer and arrange for food and entertainment. Remy, 44, says they have to find a place soon because venues are being booked quickly. “I imagine this wedding will be the whole shebang,” Remy said.